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Have a problem, a quandary or a gloomy Tuesday? Write to Teddy. He promises to answer with his whole heart. Send questions to teddy@walthamtimes.org.

Q. My momma just had a baby, so all of a sudden I have a little brother! I’m not sure how I feel about this. I love the baby so much, but my mom won’t let me lick him, and then I wonder if I did something bad. I find myself wanting to wrap my paws around everyone I meet and give them big wet kisses, which no one seems to like. And then when they hold the baby, I just want to bite their leg. What’s wrong with me? 

A: Your question really hits home right now. I’m writing from “camp NJ” at my mom’s business partner’s house because I just became an uncle. Also, I do get a little jealous when visitors talk to each other and not to me. I used to be a big jumper – it DOES get attention – but in anticipation of my nephew’s impending arrival, we’ve been playing lots of games where I get more attention plus TREATS when I practice self-control. Hide-and-seek. Middle (where I go plant myself safely in my human’s legs). Sit and wait patiently to be invited to say hello calmly. It makes my humans so proud. Me too. (It is confusing, though, when visitors tell my humans they don’t mind — or even encourage me to jump up. Please don’t do that.) I can’t wait to meet baby Lenny and show off my good-boy skills! Click here to get a helpful new baby/dog interaction tip from MSPCA/Angell.

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    Teddy is a goldendoodle, certified good boy and The Waltham Times’ advice columnist. In “Ask Teddy,” he’ll take your questions about life, love, neighbors — and whether the mail carrier is really up to something. He holds no formal credentials, but what Teddy lacks in training he makes up for in empathy, snacks and a knack for knowing when you’ve had a hard day. Have a problem, a quandary or a gloomy Tuesday? Write to Teddy. He promises to answer with his whole heart. Send questions to teddy@walthamtimes.org. Teddy lives in Waltham with the Grossman-Greene family, usually looking out the front door, or near the treat jar.

    Cyd Abnet is a Waltham native who recently graduated with a degree in Environmental Science from Clark University. She began her journalism career with Clark’s student newspaper where she covered topics from on-campus protests to competitive chess scandals. In her free time you can find Cyd enjoying Waltham’s numerous natural wonders.

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